There is no shortage of gossip in every media outlet about the most recent celebrity break ups. Sometimes we wonder why they never seem to fight for their relationships and why they seem to be married for such a short time. Some of us are so quick to pass judgment on a person that is able to run away from a relationship so easily and quickly. However, I am now led to wonder if they are to something. Maybe it is we fighters that are willing to almost anything to have a significant other and obsessing with get your ex back that have got it all wrong.

Let’s compare some of the famous stories to our own to some famous ones. Let’s start with Jennifer Anniston and Brad Pitt. When we first heard about Brad cheating the first thing you may have been thinking is that if you were Jennifer you would be thinking about how to get your ex boyfriend back. Men, you guys were already thinking about how to get back with your ex girlfriend if you were him.
This is where a lot of mess starts. Your man goes off with another girl and ends up having a kid with her. Okay Brangelina adopted but the idea is the same. Some of us women are way too willing to deal with his new baby mama just to say that we won. Think about it, you did everything you could to get your ex back and her comes back with a family. Now you have a constant reminder of his indiscretions. I really don’t see how that is the smart move. Okay great you guys have a history, but really?